- Give her a hug. We all love to be held so just throw your arms around her, hold her tight, and let her know that you think she is amazing. Let the hug linger for a couple of minutes. A good hug will help relax your wife.
- Sit her down and then stand behind her and give her a shoulder massage. Most of us carry a lot of tension in the muscles in our shoulders and neck. Spending ten minutes massaging these muscles and loosening them up will make a huge difference to your wife (Note: after a good massage you will want to make sure that she drinks a lot of water; massages release toxins that are in our muscles and if they do not get flushed out of our bodies they can cause headaches and actually make us feel physically worse off).
- Brush her hair. Women generally love having their hair played with. Be sure to be gentle. And a tip if you've never brushed a woman's hair before: start from the end of her hair and work your way to her head; this is what my wife taught me and it keeps the brush from getting stuck in large knots and thereby causing pain for your wife.