Monday, September 29, 2014

52 Things to be Grateful for Today

I think the title of this post is pretty self-explanatory.

I figure who can't use a bit more gratitude? After all, as Thomas Monson has said:

"This is a wonderful time to be living here on earth. Our opportunities are limitless. While there are some things wrong in the world today, there are many things right, such as teachers who teach, ministers who minister, marriages that make it, parents who sacrifice, and friends who help.

"We can lift ourselves, and others as well, when we refuse to remain in the realm of negative thought and cultivate within our hearts an attitude of gratitude. If ingratitude be numbered among the serious sins, then gratitude takes its place among the noblest of virtues."


Here you, 52 things to be grateful for today.
  1. The fact you are alive
  2. Your husband or wife
  3. Your family
  4. Friends
  5. Pets
  6. Education
  7. Zippers
  8. Velcro 
  9. Pockets (have you ever imagined life without pockets? Dreadful)
  10. Animals
  11. Food to eat
  12. Employment
  13. Internet access
  14. Being able to read Uplifting Love
  15. The beautiful colors of autumn
  16. Watches and clocks
  17. Microwaves
  18. Indoor plumbing
  19. Belts
  20. The combustion engine and your car
  21. Shelter, a home
  22. Religion, our faith (whatever it may be)
  23. Socks
  24. Umbrellas
  25. Books and libraries
  26. Ballpoint pens
  27. Sewing machines
  28. Bread maker
  29. Rice cooker
  30. Sunrises
  31. Ice cream (it truly is heavenly!)
  32. Rainbows
  33. Cell phones, smart phones especially
  34. Post It notes
  35. Recliners and rocking chairs
  36. To be able to see, smell, hear, touch, and taste
  37. Television and movies
  38. Health
  39. Hugs
  40. Electricity
  41. Mechanical pencils and dry erase markers
  42. Mechanics, dentists, doctors, accountants (notice lawyers are not on this list)
  43. S'mores
  44. German chocolate cake
  45. Mountains, rivers, lakes, and streams
  46. Sunsets
  47. Rain
  48. Board games
  49. The radio
  50. Shoe laces
  51. Kisses on the cheek
  52. Popcorn
I challenge you to come up with ten more things, that aren't on my list, and share them in the comments.

By the way, I'm grateful for you and that you're reading what I share. Thank you!



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You think you're happy now, and I'm sure you are, but I challenge you to read Uplifting Love and apply what you learn today to make your marriage awesome! Don't wait another minute, start taking your marriage from good to great today!

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Thursday, September 25, 2014

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12 Ways to Prevent a Divorce

Last week someone came across a post I wrote last August, "80% of Divorces are Filed by Women." After they read the post they shared it on Reddit and it exploded. Thousands and thousands of people visited the post and read it in the next three days.

Because of the huge spike in traffic for this one old post I wanted to find out what had caused such a stir exactly. I followed the visits back to Reddit and found where the post had been shared with others.

I then noticed that the Reddit thread had hundreds of comments on it so I opened them up to take a look. I was appalled and disappointed with my gender. I was also saddened that my message was so grossly misunderstood.

Hundreds of men had made asinine comments sharing their "wisdom" about how to keep women happy. The comments were lewd, sexist, denigrating, and downright offensive. Cami came up behind me as I was reading a few of them and they literally made her feel a bit ill.

How disappointed I was that evening. I, however, stand by what I said in that post and what I firmly believe.

We can all try a little bit harder to positively influence our spouse's happiness.

Can I make another person be happy? Obviously the answer is no. But can I give them more reasons to be happy? As Homer Simpson would say, "duh."

Here are 12 uplifting ways to help your spouse be happier. Another way to say it is, here are 12 ways to prevent a divorce.
  1. Say "I love you" frequently, at least daily
  2. Remind them how attractive you find them
  3. Thank them for something that they normally do
  4. Offer congratulations for an achievement no matter how small
  5. Bring them flowers and chocolate (albeit this is most effective on the female gender)
  6. Send an email or text message letting them know you're thinking about them
  7. Sincerely smile
  8. Do something to help them, something that they would have had to do if you hadn't done it
  9. Take your spouse on a real date, one that you planned ahead of time
  10. Be intimate, physically but also emotionally and intellectually as well
  11. Pray for your spouse
  12. Never use the word divorce. Don't even think it.
Hopefully this post will get shared on Reddit as well but it will have hundreds of complimentary and positive comments.
Have a great day!



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You think you're happy now, and I'm sure you are, but I challenge you to read Uplifting Love and apply what you learn today to make your marriage awesome! Don't wait another minute, start taking your marriage from good to great today!

Purchase your copy of Uplifting Love: Secrets to Making a Good Marriage Great right now and have it delivered to your inbox immediately! In just a matter of minutes you'll be on your way to having the marriage that your friends and family envy. Don't delay, get your copy today!
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Tuesday, September 16, 2014

The Devastating Consequences of the Disintegration of the Family

"WE WARN that individuals who violate covenants of chastity, who abuse spouse or offspring, or who fail to fulfill family responsibilities will one day stand accountable before God. Further, we warn that the disintegration of the family will bring upon individuals, communities, and nations the calamities foretold by ancient and modern prophets."

I'm not a master strategist. I haven't received any kind of training on warfare or how to defeat an enemy. I have never been in combat, been shot at, or shot at anyone.

I have spent a ridiculous amount of time playing strategy games on the computer and board games like Risk, Monopoly, and chess.

When I play these games, and I'm pretty good at them, my tactics develop and change as the game progresses. Sometimes I may attack directly and throw everything I have at my opponent. Other times I will hang back and watch to see what unfolds.

But regardless of my tactics my overall strategy is the same: to weaken my opponent's ability to fight back.

I want to undermine them. I want to cripple their productive capacity. I aim to defeat them slowly, over time, through patient consistency.

Let me share an example from Risk. In Risk when you control a continent you receive extra reinforcements each turn. I like to hold just one or two territories in the continent that my opponent is trying to conquer to prevent that. If I can do that and control a continent of my own then each turn I am becoming stronger while he (or she, but I've found that girls don't like playing Risk) weakens in comparison.

In Monopoly you grab one of the properties, like one of the four railroads, and just hold on to it. It keeps the other players from building houses and hotels and keeps your rent down when you land on their properties. Slowly but surely, if you can control an entire set or two, you wear them down.

Does this strategy always assure me the victory? No. But it always makes me a force to be reckoned with.

How is this related to families and marriage? In Risk, if you want to be strong and win the game you need to control continents. In Monopoly if you want to be rich and win the game you need to control sets of properties. In marriage and in family if you want to be happy and successful, if you want to win at life, you need to have the right strategy.

What should your strategy be? I propose something simple, actually several small and simple things. Why should we have a strategy? Because it is the small and simple things that we do that really strengthen and solidify our marriages and our families and when they are consistently applied great things come to pass.

There are nine foundational principles upon which we should build our marriages and homes. I wrote a post about them the week before last focusing on one of the nine principles. They are:
Have faith. Pray both privately and as a couple and as a family at least daily. Repent by asking forgiveness for wrongs and mistakes you have committed and strive not to repeat them. Forgive by allowing others the gift that you seek when you repent.
Show respect to those you love most. Love them unconditionally both in word and in deed. Feel compassion for what they struggle with as well as for the things at which they succeed.

Work hard. Then play hard through wholesome recreational activities. 

This is the strategy I recommend. This is the strategy that Cami and I use. The tactics will vary (Cami and I enjoy miniature golf, you may not so you can go bowling instead) from marriage to marriage and family to family. They will also vary from year to year. Our children love the park right now. When they're teenagers I don't think they'll feel the same enthusiasm.

The tactics vary and change. The strategy is the same.

Let's stave off the disintegration of the family, in fact, let's reverse the tide all together. A key to winning in marriage and in our families, to winning in life, is strategy. What's your strategy?



Don't miss your chance to get a copy of Uplifting Love: Secrets to Making a Good Marriage Great. This book will not only help you show your husband that you love him it will help you improve your entire marriage!

You think you're happy now, and I'm sure you are, but I challenge you to read Uplifting Love and apply what you learn today to make your marriage awesome! Don't wait another minute, start taking your marriage from good to great today!

Purchase your copy of Uplifting Love: Secrets to Making a Good Marriage Great right now and have it delivered to your inbox immediately! In just a matter of minutes you'll be on your way to having the marriage that your friends and family envy. Don't delay, get your copy today!
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Monday, September 15, 2014

Blogiversary Giveaway Celebration

Welcome to our One Year Blogiversary Giveaway Celebration!

Join us and enter to win one of the 6 prizes, totaling over $325

Wanting to support fellow bloggers and help them celebrate their one year blogging anniversary I am participating in this giveaway event. Show some love and participate too!

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The four of us are turning one this month and we've come together to celebrate our one year blogiversary! Of course, we wouldn't have made it this far if it weren't for all of your support. To help us celebrate this milestone, a few of our blogging buddies have joined with us to co-host this party and make this blogiversary celebration and giveaway possible.
Special thanks to our wonderful co-hosts:
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Becky and Glenna @My Paper Craze
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Time sure flies when you're having fun and we can't believe it's already been a year since we started blogging! Whoo hoo! To thank everyone that has helped support our blogs, we'd like to help kick off your fall season with the opportunity to win some fabulous prizes. You'll have 6 chances to win! One grand prize winner will receive $150 in cold hard cash - cha-ching! But wait, there's still 5 more chances to win a prize. Thanks to our fabulous sponsors, one lucky winner will win a sponsor gift package. Plus, each blogiversary blog will be giving one gift prize to a lucky winner too. That's six ways to win a prize and start your fall season off with a bang!

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